He looked at me like no oneโs ever looked at me He kissed me with an unquenchable passion unforeseen And he touched me, my body And my soul the way no one ever could He hugged me tight enough so I felt The entire essence of him, the past twenty years Of everything we ever felt for each other Twenty years of lust, obligations, lies, Hatred, resentment, passion, memories, life, And LOVE In his arms I felt like I was me AGAIN
I hope this story is buried for a final time and you donโt pop up again and I have to play whack an asshole once again blocking you on yet another platform would the universe be kind enough this time for it to be good riddance forever cause Iโm tired of my past mistakes to constantly come out of nowhere to disturb my present
Recession-Proof: Staying Sharp When the Bottom Drops Out by Ian Garza
When the economy tanks, the air changes. People move differently. You feel it in the supermarket aisle, where heads tilt at price tags like they’re trying to solve a riddle in a foreign language. Maybe youโre there, pen hovering over a notebook, drafting your next pitch while wondering if peanut butter can be considered a luxury item now. Recessions have a way of pushing people into the deep end, but oddly, thatโs where the best swimmers emerge. The trick is less about bracing for impact and more about learning to glide with the current. Here are seven ways to make the chaos work for you, journal in hand and mind on fire.
Cut Costs, Not Corners You donโt need to become a coupon-clipping caricature to start slicing your expenses with surgical precision. Start by conducting a cold, heartless audit of your monthly costsโsubscriptions, takeout, half-used gym membershipsโand ask yourself which of them you’d defend in a court of law. Reallocate the scraps toward things that either earn money or preserve your sanity. Groceries, for instance, offer massive wiggle room if youโre smart about what hits the cartโsave money on groceries by swapping brand loyalty for nutritional label scrutiny. Donโt eat out of boredom or habit, eat with purpose. A recession isnโt a punishment; itโs a new set of rules, and frugality is a game you can win.
Skill Up or Ship Out Those who thrive during downturns donโt wait for job boards to dictate their worth. If your industryโs shaking like a leaf, shift your gaze toward sectors that donโt flinch when markets doโhealthcare, IT, education, logistics. Thereโs a buffet of free online courses that can turn idle time into economic leverage. Learn Excel if you’re breathing. Pick up copywriting, coding, or UX design between episodes of that comfort show youโve already seen four times. Skills are portable power, and adding new ones doesnโt just insulate your incomeโit inflates your confidence. The job may not be instant, but the momentum is.
The Side Hustle Shuffle You donโt need to start a Shopify store selling ornamental cacti to qualify as an entrepreneur, but having a second income stream isnโt a luxury anymoreโitโs a survival tactic. Whether itโs reselling thrifted clothes or offering dog walking in your neighborhood, a side hustle doesnโt have to be revolutionary. It just has to work. Take an honest inventory of what you’re good at and find the angleโstart a side hustle that fits into your existing life, not the other way around. It might start small, maybe laughably so, but consistency snowballs. One gig turns into a rhythm, and suddenly, your โjust in caseโ income becomes your โthank God I didโ lifeline.
Write It Out Thereโs something quietly defiant about writing things down when the world feels untethered. Journaling isnโt about profound revelations or poetic flairโitโs about evidence. Document your spending, your mood, your micro-victories. Create a log of sanity that future-you will be grateful for. The benefits of journaling during tough economic spells are both psychological and strategicโit can help you track your patterns, spot opportunities, and process fear without letting it drive. For writers, itโs a gym session. For everyone else, itโs cheap therapy that never talks back.
Invest in a Home Warranty Nothing torpedoes a fragile budget like a busted HVAC or a rogue refrigerator. When repair costs punch a surprise hole in your wallet, having a home warranty isnโt just smartโitโs protective armor. These plans can cover major systems and appliances, offering a reliable safety net when unexpected breakdowns hit. The key is picking coverage that doesnโt just slap a Band-Aid on the issue. Find one that includes the removal of defective units and protects against breakdowns caused by botched repairs or sloppy installsโthis page is a good resource for comparing that kind of nuanced coverage. Youโre not betting on things going wrong. Youโre admitting they will, and preparing accordingly.
Community Over Chaos Isolation is expensive, both emotionally and practically. Reaching out to neighbors, local groups, or church networks isn’t just good mannersโitโs fiscal strategy. Thereโs a staggering array of local community resources offering everything from food distribution to financial counseling, yet many go untapped. Itโs not charity. Itโs infrastructureโone that exists precisely for this kind of moment. Volunteering also doubles as networking. You help others while subtly reinforcing your own safety net, a win-win most spreadsheets canโt quantify.
Mind Over Money Financial fear corrodes slowly, eating away at confidence and sleep and even relationships. Address it like you would any other health issueโdiagnose, manage, treat. Donโt ignore your stress or trivialize it. And donโt obsessively refresh stock tickers or headline feeds. Use breathing techniques, therapy apps, and if needed, professional help. Learn how to manage financial stress in a way that doesnโt involve locking yourself in a doomscroll loop until 2 a.m. The money part is real. The mental toll is realer. You need both ends intact if youโre going to make it through with anything resembling grace.
Thereโs no single blueprint for surviving a recession because recessions donโt care about blueprints. They bulldoze predictability and force reinvention. But they also burn away distractions and push people toward clarity. Whether youโre writing it out, hustling at night, or just trying to keep your fridge running without inviting financial ruin, the throughline remains the same: adapt with intention. You donโt have to thrive every day. You just need to keep movingโand that, on the worst days, is a kind of success all its own.
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De nuevo estoy aquรญ en el mismo sitio De los dรญas de mi rebeldรญa De los amores sin amor De las aventuras sin cobardรญa De los lazos que nunca existieron De la soledad sin aquel tristeza Y el amor Que nunca los dos sentimos
I wrote this poem in June of 2024. It was inspired by the disappearance of little Latina girl in my area that I didn’t feel was getting enough media attention.
it’s how this story made me feel
I pray for the little brown girl lost in Gainesville the one thatโs my sonโs age the one that looks like my sister at that age the one who has my mamiโs name I pray sheโs found alive I pray that she finds warmth in her parents arms soon I pray more of a big deal is made out of her disappearance and sheโs found quickly because Iโm sure that if this little girl had been a jonbenet look alike more would have been done to find her and bring her back to her family her community thatโs been missing her greatly
I canโt live without you another day But I have to stay away You are now part of my past To you, I was another piece of ass Even though I wish your love was mine Without you, I will be just fine Because no matter how weak I get The memory of you, I must learn to forget So with these few words I may win the war On loving you no more
Iโm ready for steak dinners and an expensive bottle of chardonnay shared over awkward getting to know you conversations with no expectations to put out Iโll be a completely different woman when Iโm dating again a woman selective about who allows near her a woman who no longer seeks validation and attention from the wrong men
a glass of champagne in my hand as I raise a toast who I used to be a woman mentally ill and needy a woman who gave men easy access to her hips a woman who thought intimacy could only be created and felt in between her sheets we say goodbye to the his woman lovingly as we usher a new era of me a woman who knows her worth and wonโt settle of anything less than she deserves
soy la poeta maldita del siglo 21 atormentada, depresiva, dramatica, salvaje, sin vergรผenza, obsesionada con la muerte y las poetas malditas de siglos antepasados soy la peor pesadilla de esta sociedad machista me vestirรฉ con un aire rosado y dulce pero de mi boca saldrรก una energรญa feminista y salvaje y me valdrรก madre incomodar a la gente y no me importara del “que dirรกnโ y por eso me consideran una arma maldita y peligrosa en la sociedad
I look forward to the day when Iโm no longer known as the writer with BPD when I no longer make my mental illness a part of my brand when Iโm no longer dependent on my ex husband and antipsychotics to survive when I finally start to resemble something like a normal person and not the vehement emotional mess I usually am